Further to Bob’s entry the other day and before the Insiders/Out girls introduce themselves we thought we’d make a quick post chronicling the move from our beloved home onto the bus and our departure from the searing heat of the Miami summer to the temperate bliss of our European tour.
The last week in the house was different for us all. While Sam reminisced over our time whilst packing I was making the final touches to the bus, trying desperately to get all the toxic stuff out of the way at least a few days before our little lungs crawled aboard – actually, in the last week, during an impromptu trip to Home Depot, Harper began walking! Aside from this massive development, Harper, unable to fully comprehend what was happening and why her world – that prior to our packing was expanding daily – was beginning to shrink, started to feed off our stresses and became increasingly agitated. Mateo on the other hand became increasingly excited. In the end we had two kids who couldn’t sleep for different reasons, and as Sam and I rushed around trying to get things in order our family and our house kind of imploded simultaneously as each of us added tangentially to the others situation.
When we started packing we decided to limit ourselves only to what we could fit on our bookshelves (not including sheets and clothes), but despite sticking to this almost until the last day and taking the triumphant photograph above, we buckled under the strain, convinced ourselves it would be better to actually SEE the clutter on the bus before we really stripped down, and so ferried and loaded truck load after truck load of crap into an already tight and rapidly diminishing space.
On our last night in the house after delivering the final pieces of furniture to our friend’s place on the beach and selling a bunch of art that we couldn’t take with us we sat in the dark in front of our fire place and ceremoniously burned all of our old bills, check books, letters, invoices, pay slips, contacts – everything that symbolized an organized, steady existence.
The next morning saw us drenched in sweat and cleaning products. When we woke up, we stripped our foam king sized bed and cut it down to queen size with a dangerously sharp kitchen knife that Richard sharpened for us. With the left over foam we made cushions for the couch and a mini mattress for Mateo. The weather had turned overnight and was now raining, forcing us to dash our final few truck loads when the rain abated, a circumstance which accentuated our fleeting status. On the final run, after saying goodbye to the one cat we could find (a neighbor is watching them while we are away), we drove from the house, Sam fighting back the tears. It was surreal. Happily the moment we set foot on the bus, a welcoming, steady aura enveloped us. The rain stopped and Harper, who hadn’t been sleeping miraculously passed right out on the bed despite a lack of curtains and me installing a clothes rail with a power drill less than six feet away.
It was hot. During the day, during the night, there seemed no escape. Even laying ontop of the sheets with fans blasting right on us and the window open we found it hard to sleep the first night. The next morning I made a fire and cooked our chicken’s eggs. I spend the day tying up loose ends at work, organizing the disastrous interior of the bus and making plans to trade in the car.
We arrived at the airport in good time. Our morning trip to Car Max wasn’t a success. They didn’t offer us enough so we will continue payments until we get back and try to find a buyer. This was Harper’s first flight. Mateo, a seasoned traveler took it all in his stride, vegetated to in-flight movies and even hung together well in the face of jet lag. I managed to cajole 3 extra meals out of the flight attendant and spent the flight crouched at Sam’s feet – we didn’t get to sit together.
For the next 2 months we will be in and around the UK. After a a short trip to London and Paris at the end of this month we will hire cars and travel to the Outer Hebrides to spend a few weeks in a cottage surrounded by nothing but moss, low lying grass and the dramatic swells of the North Atlantic sea. Sitting here now in my parents house after 4 formative years in Miami it feels like forever since I was here, almost long enough to forget much about life in the UK. By comparison 2 months does not feel long enough to reacquaint myself with the life I once had, but that’s really not the point. If anything this is a chance for my family to meet Harper and for Harper to get a taste of her roots. But by the looks of it, she is already well connected.





















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